Getting the Courage to Fly

By Annie Stephanski
California, USA

Getting the courage to fly

My sister and her family live on the east coast and we rarely get to see one another. During one telephone call, I mentioned that I might fly to see them during their spring break. But after the call, I changed my mind. I had a tiny nursing baby and a potty-training toddler, and my husband wouldn’t be able to fly with us due to his work schedule.

There was no way — especially with tighter air travel rules after September 11 — that I could get my children and all of our gear onto and off of an airplane. However, my sister and her gang were so excited at the prospect of our visit that they cried the next time we were on the telephone together.

Then I thought of my HeroicStories newsletters, and of all the kind people out there in the world, and I decided to go ahead and fly, hoping that I’d have good luck.

Many people made our trip easier. When the officer at the metal detectors saw the two children, a double stroller, a car seat and me, he told my husband that he could get a pass to help us through security and to our gate. The airline personnel also took one look at us and wrote the pass. We had no idea that this was possible, since now you must show a boarding pass to get through the checkpoint. We had assumed I’d be on my own.

Once down the jetway, a flight attendant saw us and was instantly upon us. She took my toddler by the hand, lifted the car seat with her other hand, and saw them both to our seats. While I was folding the stroller, two other passengers offered to help.

Our seat mate, Raina, was an angel. She colored pictures with my toddler, shared her tray table with us, and held the baby while I made restroom breaks. She was helpful and kind beyond all that I’d hoped. She even carried the car seat off the plane for me when we landed.

As luck would have it, once we were on the ground my 2-year-old fell deep asleep and could not be roused. The lady across the aisle carried my sleeping toddler off the plane and placed her in the stroller for me.

Of course, my sister and her children were there to meet us with hugs and kisses. It was a wonderful visit for us all.

Without the assistance of these sympathetic strangers I don’t know how I would have managed. I had visions of all three of us, myself and my two little ones, curled up and sobbing in our seats. That didn’t happen because people were willing to help. Thank you to all of them, and thanks to HeroicStories for making me think it was possible to find compassionate strangers on my journey.

Originally published as HeroicStories #324 on July 22, 2002

2 thoughts on “Getting the Courage to Fly”

  1. Dear Heroic Stories, I am a faithful reader of all your stories. While I dread opening up my email, mail box, and phone messages, as they contain 98% pleas for donations ( Just the Seniors S.S. reform bill companys have sent me over 50 requests in about 2 months. Some companys also have increased the size of the envelopes to huge 18 by 11 inch so that the postman can’t even close the flap on my box. Now the phone solicitors have electronically managed to have a phone # show up in caller ID as the same area code and first 3 digits of my cell #. Good for me as I immediately delete them !!!! However your stories seem to ellisit tears of happiness from me regularly. I can’t wait to read these gems of small miracles ! This story of a young mother trying to travel by plane with a very young baby and a todler with a stroller and bags, whose husband could not travel with her, to visit her sister whom she had not seen in a very long time, was one of these stories ! The ordinary, kind people who stepped fwd to help our young mother brought immediate tears to my eyes. I am not an emotional easily moved guy. I am a former NYC police officer, mechanic and bow hunter. There are MANY good people in this world, we just don’t hear about them often. Please, please, please, keep reminding us about their wonderful deeds !!!!

  2. For me, this is the money quote: “Then I thought of my HeroicStories newsletters, and of all the kind people out there in the world…”

    Co-conspirators to make the world a better place, indeed!


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