Terry Hoffman
Grays Harbor, WA
In ordinary times as well as crises, neighbors have always been important to me.
Several years ago, a nice family moved into my neighborhood. They were friendly, had a sweet little girl, and they were animal lovers—all pluses in my book. We had cookouts on the weekends and fires in my fire pit, where we would toast marshmallows and talk late into a Saturday evening.
When they knew I was not feeling particularly well, they would make a point to check on me, since I am elderly and my health has deteriorated significantly in the past few years.
They would tell me when they were going on vacation, and I kept an eye on their house. In return, they kept an eye on my place and chased off trespassers a couple of times.
I have been a dedicated gardener all my life and gladly shared the produce from my garden, including raspberries, carrots, beets, strawberries, and rhubarb. They enjoyed it immensely.
The second year, I got them involved in starting a garden of their own. Many times I chuckled to myself while explaining things I thought everyone knew. By the end of the growing season, they had tomatoes, some spices, and even a small strawberry bed. They were ecstatic to harvest their first home-grown food.
Then came the COVID-19 pandemic. The wife worked for a large company that is dedicated to taking good care of its employees. She informed me that the company had found a source for reliable facemasks and would provide one for each of her family members. She requested one for her “grandmother” and brought it to me. Now I can go to the grocery store with far less fear, since I am in the high-risk category, suffering not only from old age but also respiratory problems and cancer.
She did not have to go out of her way to do this. It is just a wonderful example of how people can look out for each other in this time of hardship.
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What a lovely story! It seems that the times we are in have divided some people and brought others together. I think that we are getting to see more of what the person already had in their heart, and this story is about people were already caring showing more of what’s in their hearts. I hope we all can find the time while we are forced to pull back as a time of reflection and renewal and a time when we can heal and turn toward a more loving and civil attitude toward others.
What a great story and so appropriate for what we are going through right now!
That family probably DID think of their meighbor as a grandparent. What a lovely way to show their love and gratitude!
This is great. I don’t interact much with neighbors because I like my privacy (I try to do gardening in the early morning), but I’m probably missing out on some wholesome moments like this and a real sense of community.